Because our gatherings are mostly unhosted and we value visual privacy (no profile photos), our community relies on a high standard of personal honour and "classy" behaviour.

By joining a Flock gathering, you agree to the following:

1. Finding the Nest (Arrival & Logistics)

Since Mother Hen doesn't use profile photos and won't be at the restaurant to greet you, communication is key.

• The "Flock" Reservation: Please keep an eye on your private Telegram Group chat for any updated instructions or specific "secret" table locations before you head out.

• Punctuality is Classy: Arriving on time is a sign of respect for your fellow diners. If you are more than 15 minutes late, the group may begin without you.

• No-Show Policy: Because we have limited seating and no host, a "no-show" leaves an empty chair and ruffles everyone’s feathers.  We know life happens, but since our community relies on everyone showing up, multiple unexcused absences may lead to a temporary break from Flock or a review of your membership.

2. The Honour System (Verification)

• Real Names Only: While we don't display your photo, you must register with your legal first and last name. 

• Account Integrity: Your account is for you alone. Sending a friend in your place is strictly prohibited.

3. Table Manners (Conduct)

• Sophisticated Dialogue: We encourage "secret advice" and deep connection. Harassment, hate speech, or aggressive behavior will not be tolerated.

• Self-Governance: As there is no host present, we expect members to act as adults. If a conflict arises, keep it "hip and classy"—disengage gracefully and report the incident to Mother Hen.

• Privacy of the Table: No photography is allowed at the table unless every member gives explicit verbal consent. What is shared in the Flock stays in the Flock.

4. Settling the Bill (Financial Honor)

• Individual Responsibility: Unless the group unanimously agrees otherwise at the start of the meal, everyone is responsible for their own food, drinks, tax.

• The "Check-Digger" Ban: Leaving a table without settling your portion of the bill is a crime and a violation of our core trust. This results in an immediate, permanent ban and a report to the authorities if necessary.

5. Safety & Personal Boundaries

• Meet at Your Own Risk: Flock facilitates the reservation, but we do not vet the background of members or provide on-site security. Always let someone outside the Flock know where you are meeting.

• Post-Dinner Contact: Do not feel obligated to share your phone number or social media. If you choose to connect outside the Flock, do so at your own pace.

• Sobriety: Enjoy the wine, but maintain your composure. Public intoxication that makes other members uncomfortable is grounds for removal.

6. Reporting

• Your safety is our priority. Report any violations via contact@flock.asia